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Not saying either is a deal breaker, but in most cases I’ll move on, and the next section will elaborate. The days of guys always paying for everything are coming to an end. More women are earning degrees and finding good jobs, and might not expect you to pay for everything.
You might meet one who will probably even treat you to a meal here and there, or as they say here, “invite” you. In the beginning, you might have to pay for almost everything but that could change over time.
“Somebody else could take them to the big dance,” he wrote. I didn’t mind.” The lesson: stay away from extremes, so…
Sometimes they bring friends to feel safe, sometimes because parents mandate it.
I know this can be annoying, just like paying for a woman’s taxi can seem ridiculous, but you have to decide what’s best for you. That a woman doesn’t bring a friend and pays for her own taxi.
You should be able to talk about something interesting, maybe a book you read recently or a great place you traveled, maybe something you saw on the news the day before. I understand there are cases in which you will not know. I know, you’re backpacking, you’re running around trying to see the sights. Hygiene is a big deal in Medellín so if you want to compete with the Colombian guys and other foreigners, shower at least once a day, twice if you had to do something that caused you to sweat throughout the day. Just don’t take it too far and overload the cologne like some paisa guys do. I’ve seen guys go out of their way to prove how much money they have, the way they take out a whole wad of it when they’re paying for something small, just because there are pretty girls around. A former mentor from my journalism days used to take things to the other extreme.
A friend of mine found out a woman he was seeing has a boyfriend when they got back from a lunch date and he was waiting for her at the salon where she works. But I witnessed one incident where a Colombian woman was kissing someone at an event that caters to foreigners, and one of those foreigners still hit on her. Maybe she said, “It’s nothing serious,” but that doesn’t matter. The concept of less is more is lost on a lot of them. His first girlfriend broke up with him for being dirt poor and made him feel ashamed of his mother.
Women are typically there to dance to music that does not encourage them to grind with you, as reggaeton does. Or maybe try going to the theater or other cultural events.