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Or mentioning their far-off distant relative who they thought might still be single (which they never were), and who they could maybe one day set me up with (which they never did).
It became hard to find peace between the God that I loved and this aching, unmet desire to find a companion. It felt like God wasn’t listening, and I was discouraged that my life seemed stuck in a pit of hopelessness with no sign of movement anytime soon.
If you were dating an unbeliever, what would honestly be your priority, romance or winning a soul for Christ?
You go to youth group, you love Jesus, you meet someone, you graduate high school, you get married, and as the fairy tales say, “You live happily ever after.” When I was 19 I was ready. At 27, I understood and accepted that God was using the last few years to prepare me for marriage.No amount of flirting made Jesus more desirable to him.Sure, he could have provided me with every luxury in this world — except the one thing that held the most value to me.This tells us two things: one, that relationships are hard; and two, that God knows it.
While there may be a lot of reasons or contributing factors as to why a Christian would make the choice to be in a romantic relationship with a non-Christian, I don’t believe that it is simply a relational issue.
Second Corinthians (KJV) tells us not to be “unequally yoked” with an unbeliever.